Why so many single black women?

I find it quite interesting how the world is so curios to know why there are so many single black women. There are many reasons for this dilemma. The thing that baffles me about the whole thing is why people are going there. It is not like if they had the answers the reality of the fact is not going away.

What would you expect to happen when we as African American people had no plan for ourselves when we were set free. There was no bible of life for us to follow as we emerged into White America. The freed slaves lacked the ability to see themselves as one race of people. Foreigners enter this country with a plan to remain authentic and true to their culture. Some take on the white American ways to survive but their hearts are known to be in their culture.

As we emerged into this new opportunity, we gave up our natural identity to not only survive but to live the life of the so-called American dream. Beginning with our hair, women straighten it so much now that it is almost more straighter than other nationalities who hair is naturally straight. Where men do straighten their hair at times, many rid themselves of the natural kinky hair by shaving their heads early in life instead of allowing balding to come as a natural process. In a sense everything about us had to go. And when we began this process, the potential for natural bonding was destroyed. Not only did we kill ourselves physically but soulfully as well. The African American people lack a foundation to survive as a constructive race of people in White America.

Man look at woman and woman look at man not knowing how to naturally connect to one another. Who or what they see is not natural. It is like they are looking at aliens. When the reality starts to kick in, we do a fast turn away because the reality is too painful and u forgivable. We are looking at each other through eyes that do not belong to us. We punish one another because of fear.

This is part one of my series revealing why so many single black women.

"All truth passes through three stages. First, it is ridiculed. Second, it is violently opposed. Third, it is accepted as being self-evident."

Arthur Schopenhauer

When I listened to President Obama give his State of the Union Address, tears came to my eyes.  Here was a man who genuinely cares about America. This man loves his wife and children.  He did not become President for the same reasons most men become President.  He became one to show America how sick we really are.
As Obama spoke to the nation, the world was watching but most importantly, children of America were watching as well.  What they saw was very sad.  Sitting right before us were grown people representing our Country literally pouting like two-year old children.  The Republican Party refused to show any signs of concern for the American people.  They did not have the ability to give any inkling of hope that we can save America. 
These same people ran this Country for eight years. They want us to act like damages that occurred during that time never happened.  Anybody in their right mind knows their plans used to run America invoked self-destruction.  The damages are still prevalent today.  Einstein once wrote: “Doing the same thing over and over expecting a different result is insanity”.  We cannot continue to follow The Republican Party’s way of thinking if we want a solid future for our children.
Because of the past, not the present, America is suffering severely.  Democrats against Republicans and vice versa are a guaranteed war that will finish off this Country.  Obama, I do believe if he had his way neither party would exist.  A House divided against itself cannot stand.  While this war is going on, nations surrounding us are getting stronger and watching us become weaker. 
Obama can only expose the catalysts that control and destroy America.  Many people responded to his speech like victims who do not know how to accept the truth.  They would rather forget the past and blame present choices for the struggles we face today.  Because of the severe victimization we have accepted for so long, possible healing is like a dream, a sure impossibility.  To survive, many people attack Obama because to accept the reality of what they accepted years ago would be too traumatic.  Attacking makes it more bearable when in reality they know we were raped.
For sure, it is obvious the President does not have the power people tend to think he has.  Instead they are whipping post for decisions made and not made by people we elect to be with him.  Eight years ago it was Bush who was blamed for our woes.  He appeared to be in sync with these ridged leaders.  But was he really?  Obama is not in sync with them and they are determined to tame and break him because no one is coming into that White House and heal this nation.  They just will not allow it. 
Clean house, eliminate all bacteria.  Anything else is continued abused for the American people.  Should there be a revolution?  Yes!

I am reminded of how exhilarating it was to watch the electing of Mr. Barrack Obama for President. At the same time, it was excruciatingly painful for me to celebrate the victory. This was such a great sacrifice to me.  I saw a man who has love in his life, a beautiful wife and two lovely daughters who lived to be the best they could humanly be. Both Mr. Obama and Michelle were compelled to give back to life for giving them hope to obtain their dreams. This compelling force united together in hope to make this a better world. Yes, I know this does not sound like politics. This is not my intentions. This thought processing is about life, love, reality and being born to make a profound difference in the world. In this case, these two wonderful people were born to pierce an opening in American conscious to head in a different and better direction.

Though the political conscious of America is darkened by past acts of injustice, greed, deception, and destruction of the human soul, Hope finally rose in the midst of this dark abyss. The truth is, America is vomiting the bad choices made against its people, reaping what has been unjustly and selfishly sowed by greedy and selfish people; purging the enemies against equality and justice; paying the price for killing and destroying innocent lives; crying due to finally accepting we have been abused by leaders who were suppose to do what was best for us all; healing after being raped of our security, potential prosperity and a future of goodwill, and America is re-establishing its foundation for a prosperous and spiritual future for innocent victims being born to create a better future than what many of us have had to face today.

While the media and those against the Obama administration work to justify their negative tactics and presentations against it, the American people suffer daily. Hope fading or completely gone as it were before he became president due to the American conscious being violated by poor leadership. If America does not come together consciously for the good of our nation, we will not prosper. We have to bite the bullet and accept we are in a serious cancerous situation. Our country is in critical condition holding on to a respirator we call Obama. He is just a man seeding our conscious to come together and beat this cancer.

No matter what our financial condition is, we spent too much and the places and sources that collected our hard owned money are being restrained. We gave them too much for nothing now the scales are balancing. Corporate America was top heavy taking from the little guy now the script has flipped. (Not all) People who were comfortable unconcerned about equality and justice of human rights are finally being a little discomforted now able to understand others’ plights in life who suffered unnecessarily due to greedy establishments, etc. the day of reckoning is upon us and we must stand strong and together if we want that improved future we hoped about.

AMERICA WE ARE ON A RESPIRATOR NO TIME TO RESPOND TO DESPERATION WITH JUDGMENT AND NEGATIVITY. PRAY! HOPE! TRUST! AND YES, CHANGE AS INDIVIDUALS. DON’T LET THE MEDIA CLIP OUR WINGS, NOT NOW!

BECOME CONSCIOUS OF THAT BETTER WORLD THE OBAMAS SEE!

Being that we the people of the United States of America chose to elect the leadership we now have today, we have to accept the disastrous outcome of our choices. Now, people who voted for the Bush Administration and will continue to vote for it as they look towards McCain, will continue to send us to Hell. Our difficulties we are facing today will continue because of the narrow mind mentality found in America. There is no need to listen to promises of candidates to rebuild our economy. Stop looking to them to solve this horrific problem. They didn’t cause it, YOU DID when you voted eight years ago. Obviously, too many are still ignorant to the fact that they have a lot to do with the war in Iraq.

The rich folks wouldn’t be rich if the little guy didn’t work hard and surrender his money to a system that takes more and more from them. Many will vote for McCain. They have no problem seeing the Middle Working Class carry the burden of taxes year after year. One thing they are forgetting, eventually they will lose. The Middle Class and ordinary people are not going to be able to keep holding you up. Physicians, we have been paying for your degrees for years. Entertainers, we have been idolizing and supporting you for years. Eventually, we are going to have use our money to survive leaving entertainment of a less priority. And you, self-righteous and misleading Evangelicals, we are beginning to get tired of paying your jet fuel and custom designers bill. You voted for Bush so we know which way you are going. Eventually, tithes are going elsewhere.

America, look at yourselves, you don’t know what is real. But you at least have to know when something seems familiar. Working America, who will give you hope? Who is after your insurance plans from your employers? Who has always looked out for the rich? How come the working class can’t get a tax break? We have been carrying this country for years. If we do not choose wisely, we will have only ourselves to blame.

Obama nor McCain can save us from the damages incurred from this existing leadership. We have years of suffering already. No matter who becomes president, it is going to take more than four years to pull us out of this slump. If we do not choose wisely, there will be no healing for this nation. The world is very well aware of it. We must save ourselves. It is not about race, gender, class, it is about who will re-establish our foundation for future generations.

Those worried about the Anti-Christ, he is in the church that is why Bush was elected so stop thinking he is getting ready to reign in the White House. America, save yourself, one man can not do it nor can one woman. Stop the suicide. We’re dying!

It never seizes to amaze me how we as a human race lacks the ability of choosing what is  best for our survival and livlihood.  How can people feel so comfortable watching a woman leave her family of five children, one being a teenager pregnant and one under six months with Downs Syndrome? I mean are we that selfish and desperate that we find comfort in trusting a man that has chosen to strip this woman from her home to save his election?

Well, this is how it appears in America today. McCain has asked a woman who already has her hands full being a wife and mother to join him to lead America to best.  Are we worth such a great sacrifice?  Sure the new American woman can bring home the bacon, throw it in a pan and let her man know yes, she is a woman W-O-M-A-N.  Yeah woooo woman look at what you are doing.  There is no way Palin can do best for her family and America under these pre-existing obligations.  Something or someone will come up short not to mention she has a husband who like most women know is like having another child in the house sometimes.

I personally judge people by their parenting.  If you have greater priorities in life other than tending to your children, I can't trust you to do what is best for me or anybody else.  It just simply do not add up.  Parenting requires your all.  To miss any developmental stages due to stress, exhaustion, unnecessary priorities is a diservice to our children and the world because these neglected children will have to face the world less of a person than they had to be if their parents especially their mother was there when they needed them the most.

How caring is McCain?  Was he that determined to win that he would make such a selfish decision?  If so, how will he lead this country?  He has already turned his back on his pre-existing Republican buddies along with his mentor, Bush to win.  What else will he do?  Better yet, what will he do should he win?

What about the American people especially the women thinking?  Do you care about her family?  Are you so narrowminded and selfish that you want her in office at any cost as well?  We don't need a Mother Palin, we need a solid and available Vice President that could if possible be available to run this nation as the President of the United States.  Even with that said, her children need her more than we do.  How do we not see this?

Any real mother should know this is not normal nor the best choice for rebuilding a nation that has been raped by its own government.  We need someone more available and with understanding that a child deserves their mother.  Come on America, what are we thinking?  Save us Mother Palin from the OLD and NEW guy forget about your family, please!