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February 3, 2010 10:15:42
Posted By Universalove

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Why so many single black women?

I find it quite interesting how the world is so curios to know why there are so many single black women. There are many reasons for this dilemma. The thing that baffles me about the whole thing is why people are going there. It is not like if they had the answers the reality of the fact is not going away.

What would you expect to happen when we as African American people had no plan for ourselves when we were set free. There was no bible of life for us to follow as we emerged into White America. The freed slaves lacked the ability to see themselves as one race of people. Foreigners enter this country with a plan to remain authentic and true to their culture. Some take on the white American ways to survive but their hearts are known to be in their culture.

As we emerged into this new opportunity, we gave up our natural identity to not only survive but to live the life of the so-called American dream. Beginning with our hair, women straighten it so much now that it is almost more straighter than other nationalities who hair is naturally straight. Where men do straighten their hair at times, many rid themselves of the natural kinky hair by shaving their heads early in life instead of allowing balding to come as a natural process. In a sense everything about us had to go. And when we began this process, the potential for natural bonding was destroyed. Not only did we kill ourselves physically but soulfully as well. The African American people lack a foundation to survive as a constructive race of people in White America.

Man look at woman and woman look at man not knowing how to naturally connect to one another. Who or what they see is not natural. It is like they are looking at aliens. When the reality starts to kick in, we do a fast turn away because the reality is too painful and u forgivable. We are looking at each other through eyes that do not belong to us. We punish one another because of fear.

This is part one of my series revealing why so many single black women.

"All truth passes through three stages. First, it is ridiculed. Second, it is violently opposed. Third, it is accepted as being self-evident."

Arthur Schopenhauer

　

　

　

　


 
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February 6, 2008 02:32:49
Posted By Universalove

LOVE IS WORTH HAVING.  DON'T LET THIS WORLD FOOL YOU IN THINKING DIFFERENTLY....message from my heart.

 

When I look at the world today, I cannot help but wonder how we have come to accept the programming this world has infiltrated into our minds when it comes to matters of the heart.  I mean look at all the lonely people in the world.   Why is there so little love to go around in a world filled with so many people?  The answer is easy; we as the human race are being conditioned to not believe in the power of love.

 

As the world continued to become more busy and noisy, the soul of mankind was silenced.  We do not move from the inside out to get to the best state of being in life.  Instead we move from the outside in trusting external sources to tell us what is best for ourselves.  For instance, the world knows the word love has an ancient vibration to the soul of humanity that makes it want it and desire to hear the words "I love you" to feel special and connected to one another.  So, love was a word left to be defined in so many definitions allowing no actual accountability to the person who decides to say "I love you" to someone.  Many say it knowing the receiver is automatically drawn in just because of human needs.

 

Usually when a person is asked to define what they mean when they say "I love you", you usually get, you know what I mean, I can't explain it I just know I do or it makes me crazy about you etc.,.  These shallow meanings found from both individuals’ promise a shallow foundation and a weak bridge to build an eternity upon.  Strangely, people do not realize it was their two unique meanings of love that caused the eventual collapse in the relationship.  They actually felt just saying the words guaranteed a bright future.  They learned to be shallow by following the world.

 

The love stories we find on TV make you think love is something you go get not something that gets you because that would mean you have to deal with more than your physical presence in the world.  Your soulmate is not someone the world finds for you.  He or she is a gift from God, the giver of love, life and eternity.  I know the world would have you believe it has what it takes to match you with that perfect mate.  How can it when the world does not bring forth life?  Love in all actuality is God manifesting His specialized care to His creations.  When He wants you to really experience His distinguished love for you, a special love will manifest and that love will be you in the opposite gender naturally able to love you through eternity.

 

 

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What Is Love ? & Can It Be Defined ?

 

I want to thank Dexter for answering the call to being my soulmate.  I love him dearly and I thank God for him everyday. 
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