BRITNEY SPEARS' SISTER PREGNANT AT AGE SIXTEEN was one of the latest headlines flashing across our television and internet screens. The thing that stays in my mind is the grin on this sixteen-year-old child's face. What do she think was accomplished? Was it the certainty of gaining even greater coverage from the media? Or that just maybe this child is excited about having someone to love and need her?

People tend to look at things differently when it is a celebrity choosing less than best for themselves than the large numbers of non celebrities doing the same things. Whether you are a celebrity or not, children deserve to be born into the world under better conditions. Having a large bank account does not qualify you to be a great parent no more than having a strong body to carry a child in poverty. The examples celebrities are displaying today is assisting in the destruction of family values. This alone creates a future for our children of being confused and desperate in their search to understand the meaning of life.

The American Idol Show had a winner,Fantasia Barrino, the only one so far selected to have their life story told many times on live television. She was a young lady struggling with an illegitimate child. The story ends on a positive note after much struggling and embarrassment. Glamor, fortune and fame was her rewards. This is a fantasy world for the millions who will not even know who the father of their children are due to continued thoughtless sexual choices. Even Oprah and her millions are not exempted from the price of ignoring the Word of God. Marriage was set up for a reason. Live-in companions is a worldly institution contrary to the laws found in the Bible.  This acceptance has created far too many single-parented homes leading to children with no father or heritage. Instead, the world has more women enveloped in tough skin lacking the ability to love graciously as virtuous women of God.

We are not being painted a true picture of the consequences of our choices. A celebrity does not make a wrong right. It is wrong to set up a life style contrary to the word of God. This type of irresponsibility is an abomination to God. And if you don't want to take it there it is a catalyst to the destruction of humanity. The media will have us believe this is acceptable behavior because a large part of the media is ruled by people who care less about integrity, dignity, righteousness and the spirituality of the human soul. They have celebrities over compensating their lack of real and raw talent with negative publicity. Not all celebrities fall in this category only those who lack spiritual values leading to best. What little sister Spears is learning about family is not a good thing.

Sex has become the main connection of feeling alive for most humans because love is not a priority. We are becoming less than animals in the care of our young.

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I don't know about you but this Christmas Season did not have the spirit of Christmas as I remembered it could have. Happy Holidays didn't do it for a lot of people and it showed up in the atmosphere. To think our dictators took time out to remove Merry Christmas from celebrating conscious after all of these years, yet they can't catch Bin Laden nor establish security for our children. I tell you, something is wrong with this picture.

As we approach the New Year celebration, I pray people will begin to see the programming the world system induces into our conscious. There is more to life than struggling to get more material wealth. If we do not introduce the other missing elements of life into our conscious, we are going to have to prepare ourselves to be surrounded by heathens that do not care how we feel about anything. Children are being denied full development of their souls due to materialism. 

Appreciation, respect, good character, love etc. are not priorities anymore in preparing children  to become adults.

It is extremely important that we each individually get in touch with gratitude and appreciation for having another day of life to be able to see, talk, laugh, hear, smell and to choose what is best for self and mankind. Instead of complaining about not getting a new car, pair of shoes, nails and hair done, promotions etc., thank God you are alive. Start this New Year praying people will choose to be a better human being for the sake of diffusing the selfish acts of many people.

Before you think you have it bad or deserve more, think about a family who birthed a son with no limbs. This young man is more appreciative to being alive than many of us with large bank accounts, all our limbs, loved ones alive, etc. He is so grateful that he tells the world how blessed he is to be alive. And, he is more independent than the average person because this young man, Nic Vujicic uses everything God gave him to the best of his ability. We can learn something from him. We can re-establish our priorities and open our eyes to love, caring, giving and turning away from greed and selfishness of ourselves and authority figures that take from us to stay rich.

HAPPY NEW YEAR should mean returning home to our souls---our first realization of knowing we are blessed to be alive and we are here to love one another not just get more stuff. Begin again. Nic Vujicic knows why we are born. He is amazing! Join me in observing the true meaning of life: 

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Looking back over my life, I can’t help but to think of the only father I ever knew. He was a man so loved by the women and his family. He was highly respected by everyone. He had a natural charm that would make you want to be around him especially when he would speak. His voice would make you want to listen to every word he spoke. With that voice, he had intelligence and wisdom. But when you looked in his eyes, they always seem to be fighting back tears.

Often times my father and I would take my sons and go to his favorite park and talk for hours about life. The things he shared with me gave me a deeper understanding of life and people. One thing he always told me: “Don’t ever let anybody into the sanctuary of your mind because that is how people take possession of you.” I never forgot those words as I faced the world and began to see the truth about the nature of humanity. He was so right in so many ways. I only wished I understood what broke his heart so early in life. He didn’t trust anybody outside his family.

I learned later on in time, he was molested by his uncle and his family was known for incest among themselves. Also, his trust in women went down the drain when his bride to be, a minister’s daughter had taken all of his money he sent home while he was fighting in the war in Korea. He told me himself, he would never trust women.

But he always told me he loved me and he would do anything for me. He found no wrong in molesting me as a child. In fact, he swore he could not help being in love with me. When I became a teenager, he approached me as a lover and I shook and cried so hard, he promised to never approach me again. That night just before midnight, my father was shot in the back and paralyzed from the waist down. Of course, I felt it was my fault. If I had not made him speak those words, maybe he would not have been paralyzed.

My father died about twenty years later as a paraplegic. Even on his death bed, he found no wrong in loving me the way he did. In my heart, I always felt he couldn’t help who he was; anybody for that matter, who distorted the true meaning of love. Though I wished I had a father who knew how to be a father and to teach me those things in life a father should teach through the eyes of God, I found what my father gave me was a heart, burden and urgency to assist in the healing of the broken hearted and the misguided victims in the world.

Most victimizers are victims themselves. God made it plain to me to love all His children and to not judge them for their lack of love and understanding of what is best. But instead, plant seeds that will eventually choke the weeds that vex the spirit of freedom. To this day, I love my father and wished he could have experienced the understanding of parenthood through the eyes of God. In his absence, I do the will of God.

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When trusting is in your life, experiences become sweeter. When you are in a state of trusting someone, your body even feels better because it does not have to be on guard as it holds all your tension and uneasiness. Looking at an infant you see how relaxed he or she is. All they have to do is receive. Because all they have to do is receive much is given from them as well, especially pure love. They give us gentleness and refreshment towards life because we are given an opportunity to have safe interactions with another human being without wondering the costs for caring and giving. People today are not too trusting because of the many deceptions experienced in relationships.

Though a lack of trust can be justified, the lack prevents us from spreading our wings. Trusting has a birthing effect that is why we must be childlike in nature to obtain the Kingdom of God. We cannot let people vex our spirit so strongly that we can't breathe freedom to love. Trust is the ability to know your inner guidance always draw all good to your life even if people try to make you see otherwise. No matter what sins people toss your way, stand in trusting God will catch it. Do not let human deceptions build life time fences of bondage. Keep moving towards the high prize of freedom to be. Without trust can not know God.

If I had a daughter I would tell her to understand she is a gift from God. I would instill that in her from the day she is born. There would be no competition between us as far as winning daddy’s affections or proving I am the better female. I would tell her there was a time it was considered a curse to have a daughter verses having a son. But that time is over because now the female child can be adored, respected and looked upon as intelligent.

I would tell her to always know she is a unique creation of God and God is something or someone deep in her heart. I would teach her to value this invisible presence at all times and to shield it from the temptations of the world. First and foremost she must always understand that boys are totally different than girls in more ways than just physical. I would let her know each year of her life requires a different understanding of the male species.

First of all, the boy is a hunter and he thrives to satisfy his senses. It is human nature for him to desire to devour her body but it does not mean you should surrender it to him, especially when God is your first love. I would teach her to understand it is normal to feel sensations in her distinguished female areas of her body that the male yearns to touch and explore. But understand this is human nature. This urgency is the continuation of the human species. Know precious daughter it is not your responsibility to give your body away for this natural process. The alluring of the eyes of the beholder and his strong desire to have you is no different than what happens with the animals in the jungle. It is called mating to bring forth life.

True, it appears romantic and magical when you read about it or watch it on TV. This is just a smoke screen to sedate you as your soul, spirit and relationship with God is compromised for a moment of lustful fulfillment. Once the sperm is released, things are never the same because God was not in it and He was put on hold while your self-value is dropped. Before you take off those panties, remember you are not alone. God is there and hoping He is chosen over satisfying the lusts of the flesh of another.

Once you have allowed yourself to become naked before the eyes of a male, you risk the chance of being an instrument for sexual pleasure and never seen as a flower again. The boys share their experiences with one another as though their experience was a just reward for all their efforts for cunning you into his bed. Virginity is special for it represents oneness with God. God has something for you when you wait for your mate and trust Him to choose him for you.

There are other things going on in life for God’s children besides sweating between sheets. There is much to be done in bringing light into a world where God was not considered instead of sex. The outcome is greed, lust, drugs, sexual abuse and hate. All just because one girl, someone’s daughter did not value herself as a child of God. Honor yourself. See the opposite sex as a means to exercise spiritual truth not sexual arousal for the outcome is illegitimate children and a cry for the father to be in their lives. Go in to the world knowing God is with you always. If only someone had told them.

Love is real. It is not based on being wanted and needed. It is based on a silent knowingness that together we can make a difference in this world. My daughter, your most important homework assignment is finding out whom or what God is and living it each day of your life.